Sunday, 1 December 2013

Weekly Wondering // Week 9.

I found this set of questions, '365 thought provoking questions to ask yourself this year', last year and bookmarked the webpage. After having rediscovered it I am answering 7 of the questions each week  until I complete the year. 

57. Have you ever regretted something you did not say or do?
I can't say that I have. I really do strive to refrain from regretting anything at all in life as I feel you definitely learn from the situation, as well as the fact that I believe everything happens for a reason. 

58. Has your greatest fear ever come true?
Not yet. I fear a few things but I think most of all is being alone for all my life. Luckily Jake has stuck by my side so far and though tough times. Hopefully now we're in a better position and life is on the up we'll be able to enjoy each others company more. 

59. Why do we think of others the most when they’re gone?
I think that people get caught up in everyday life but when someone passes away things stop and make you think.  Then when reliving daily activities you realize the hole they've left behind. I know that, as bad as it sounds, I didn't think I'd miss my Granda as much as I do now that he's gone but I do and think of him everyday especially knowing how much he'd love Baker with him being a Shepard and dog lover after all. 

60. What is your most beloved childhood memory?
Well with having a memory as bad as mine, there isn't much I can remember from being a child. However from photos and such I think that I just appreciate the little things like playing in my Wendy House in the back garden or family BBQ's with UB40 playing and my 'little sister' shouting 'Dandell' over the fence. 

61. Is it more important to love or be loved?
To love. It'd be horrible to not have anyone love you in return but I think having the ability to love another is one of the most important things you need to be able to do to have a full life. 

62. If it all came back around to you, would it help you or hurt you?
Help! All I ever try to do is to help people, with the best intentions and I think I achieve being a good friend or nice person the vast percentage of the time. I hope though that Karma does exist and things that have happened in the past, be it a long time ago or recently, are counter balanced to teach the culprits that you get what you give out. 

63. If you had the chance to go back in time and change one thing would you do it?
Not at all. As I've said before everything happens for a reason and to have good things in life you need to experience bad times which make you more thankful for what you do have. Also if I were to change things perhaps I would never meet Jake, in turn not of gotten Baker or even this job!

Click HERE to read week 8! 

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